Domestic Abuse includes any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass but is not limited to the following types of abuse:
Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.
Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.
This definition, which is not a legal definition, includes so called ‘Honour’ Based Violence, Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) and Forced Marriage, and is clear that victims are not confined to one gender or ethnic group.
Use of Gender Language in Procedures, particularly in relation to Domestic Violence and Abuse
Please note that throughout the WSCP procedures, particularly those related to domestic abuse perpetrators are generally referred to in the masculine and the term ‘mother’ is often used to refer to the non-abusive partner. This gender specific language is based on research and reflects the majority of cases. However it is important to recognise that it does not always apply – males can be victims and females can be perpetrators – and the terms should always be read flexibly
Domestic Abuse and Covid-19: Advice and Support
Public services and support agencies in Wirral have a message to anyone experiencing domestic abuse during the COVID-19 (Coronavirus) pandemic: You are not alone, and we are still here to support you.
While residents will be following Government advice and staying home to help reduce the risk of COVID-19, we know that there are vulnerable people in our communities who will be concerned about the prospect of staying home – particularly those who are dealing with domestic abuse, violence, and coercive or controlling behaviour.
Wirral Council and partners continue to work with Merseyside Police and providers of domestic abuse support to maintain essential services for anyone affected during the weeks and months ahead.
Tom Usher, Cabinet Member for Children and Families, said:
“While staying home is the safest thing to do to help reduce the spread of COVID-19, we know that home isn’t always a safe place.
“The council – and public services generally – are adapting to new ways of working at the moment, but this doesn’t mean anyone suffering abuse is alone. We are still here to help – so please, if you are struggling or in danger, please don’t suffer alone. Text or call us and we will be there for you.”
Advice and information is available by telephone, text message or online services. Sources of support are listed below, and you can find examples of coercive or controlling behaviour at the Women’s Aid website.
HM Government Resources for agencies about Covid-19 Domestic Abuse Campaign:
Help for those Concerned about their own Behaviour
Respect Phoneline Covid-19 Campaign
Many families and relationships will feel increased pressure and for those living with domestic abuse, this could cause serious harm.
The Respect Phoneline is a key source of support for people concerned about their behaviour and wanting to manage and change it. Now more than ever, the Respect Phoneline will be critical to family members and others who are finding it difficult to manage their behaviour during this difficult time. We need them to know that support is out there and that there is no excuse for abuse.
If you are struggling with your own behaviour at home please contact the Respect Phoneline using the contact information below:
Who to contact
If you, your child or anyone in the family are at immediate risk of harm, you should contact the police urgently, CALL 999. If you are a Wirral resident and are experiencing domestic abuse or believe someone you know is, please contact Wirral Integrated Front Door: 0151 606 2008 (Monday to Friday 9am-5pm). Outside of these hours please call the Emergency Duty Team on 0151 677 6557.
Wirral Family Safety Unit: Independent Domestic Violence Advisors will continue to offer telephone support to victims of domestic abuse, and to all victims where risk of ‘harmful practices’ needs to be explored (forced marriage, honour-based abuse and female genital mutilation (FGM). Call an advisor on 0151 666 4914.
The Family Safety Unit are continuing to offer support to clients via telephone and email. IDVAs are continuing to safety plan with clients and where appropriate referring clients to outside agencies. The Family Safety Unit continue to accept new referrals from all agencies and self-referrals.
MARAC will take place via conference call every Wednesday from 1st April 2020.
Tomorrow’s Women Wirral: The team is in regular contact with women during this difficult time. Please call 0151 647 7907 if you need help, and one of the team will offer advice and a listening ear.
Wirral Women and Children’s Aid: Provides a 24/7 helpline. Please call 0151 643 9366 for guidance and support. Women’s Aid: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/
National Domestic Violence Helpline: 0808 2000 247 (24 hours).
Worst Kept Secret Helpline: 0800 028 3398.
Refuge: (includes information for men) | refuge.org.uk | 0808 200 0247 (24 hours) The Men’s Advice Line, for male domestic abuse survivors: 0808 801 0327.
National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0800 999 5428.
Samaritans (24/7 service): 116 123.
Domestic Abuse and Children
The issue of children living with Domestic Violence and Abuse is now recognised as a matter for concern in its own right by both government and key children’s services agencies. The link between child Physical Abuse and Domestic Violence is high, with estimates ranging between 30% to 66%.
In 2002, nearly three quarters of children subject of a Child Protection Plan lived in households where Domestic Violence and Abuse occurs
Children living in a family environment where there is Domestic Violence and Abuse are at risk whether or not they have directly witnessed the abuse. Some children living with Domestic Violence and Abuse are at risk of Significant Harm.
A key concern in safeguarding children and young people is the potential for long term emotional damage caused by the presence of Domestic Violence and Abuse during early formative years. Children can witness and be affected by Domestic Violence and Abuse from all corners of the household, and over 90% are aware of it happening.
The poster below includes 5 key facts related to domestic abuse in the UK:
Combatting Domestic Abuse
Combatting Domestic Abuse remains a priority area for the Wirral Safeguarding Children Board. The Domestic Abuse committee have published a Domestic Abuse Strategy for Wirral.
For professionals the WSCB has also published its Responding to Children and Young People who are at Risk from Domestic Violence and Abuse – Policy and Guidance document. This is available on the WSCB procedures website and can be accessed here:
HM Government multi-agency statutory guidance on FGM (published April 2016):
Tools for Assessing Domestic Violence and Abuse
Domestic Abuse, Stalking, Honour-based violence – Risk Identification Checklist (DASH or RIC) – tool to help identify adult victims of domestic violence and abuse
When would you use it?
- “A woman seems to be being stalked by her ex-partner. It appears he has been harassing her and there are domestic abuse concerns – does he pose a risk to her?”
- There is evidence of potential domestic abuse within a household, is it significant?
What is it?
- The purpose of the Dash risk checklist is to give a consistent and simple tool for practitioners who work with adult victims of domestic abuse in order to help them identify those who are at high risk of harm and whose cases should be referred to a Multi-Agency Risk Assessment Conference (MARAC) meeting in order to manage their risk. The score provides evidence required to refer to Family Safety Unit.
- Whilst domestic abuse is most often perpetrated by men towards women in an intimate relationship such as boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, this checklist can also be used for lesbian, gay, bisexual relationships and for situations of ‘honour’-based violence or family violence.
- If you are concerned about risk to a child or children, following the completion of a DASH you should make a referral to ensure that a full assessment of their safety and welfare is made.
Barnardo’s Domestic Violence Risk Identification Matrix (DV RIM) – tool to help assess the risk to children from impact of domestic abuse between adults
The tool enables practitioners to assess the level of risks to children from male and female domestic abuse. The sheet contains a list of risk factors, vulnerabilities and protective factors which helps practitioners recognise whether a child is at moderate, serious or severe risk.
Multi-agency Risk Assessment Conference (MARAC) – support for victims
A MARAC is a multi-agency meeting which has the safety of high risk victims of domestic abuse as its focus. It involves the participation of all the key statutory and voluntary agencies who may be involved in supporting a person experiencing domestic abuse.
In Wirral support is most frequently provided by the Independent Domestic Violence Advocate (IDVA) based within the Family Safety Unit. The IDVA is a specialist advisor who has received accredited training to work with high risk victims of domestic abuse from the point of crisis.
The MARAC will identify “high risk” victims/survivors of domestic violence, and will offer professional support and guidance, which will reduce the threat of further harm and repeated domestic violence to the victim/survivor and their immediate family members.
Referral – All WSCB partner agencies have a designated point of contact for the Wirral MARAC. Where domestic abuse is disclosed or suspected the point of contact in each agency will follow the Domestic Abuse referral pathway to ensure appropriate action is taken to safeguard individuals and refer into MARAC.
Domestic Abuse Campaigns
Having a Zero Tolerance to Domestic Abuse is an aim of the partnership in Wirral through the Wirral Council’s 2020 Vision. The WSCB and partner agencies are currently supporting the Be a Lover not a Fighter campaign which has been promoted through social media, with advertising material in partner agencies and through high profile public advertising such as messages on buses and in the press.
Key messages from the campaign can be seen throughout this page.
Two learning posters about Forced Marriage and Honour Based Violence for professionals are included here:
Click on the picture below for a seven minute briefing on coercive control:
Domestic Abuse Training for Professionals
A Basic Awareness package for professionals is available below:
The WSCB recently updated the multi-agency Domestic Abuse training available for all professionals in the children’s workforce. Details of the full day training course including dates and how to apply can be found here: